Find love that actually fits
Flame matches you on personality, values, and lifestyle — not just photos. Meet real people at real events in your city.
2M+ members · 4.8/5 rating
Sofia, 28
Vancouver · Designer
2M+
Active members
850K+
Matches made
120K+
Events hosted
94%
Safety rating
Everything you need to find the one
From the first swipe to the first date — designed to feel calm, safe and genuinely personal.
Smart matching
Our compatibility engine goes beyond looks — matching you on personality, values, and lifestyle.
Real-world events
Join coffee meetups, hikes, dinners, and more. Meet people IRL in a low-pressure setting.
Nearby map
See who's around you right now. Your location stays approximate to protect your privacy.
Verified profiles
Every verified badge means a real person. Feel safe knowing who you're talking to.
AI icebreakers
Never face a blank opener. Thoughtful suggestions make the first message effortless.
Streak rewards
Stay active and earn badges. The longer your streak, the more visibility you get.
How Flame works
Build your profile
Add photos, tell your story, and share what makes you tick — lifestyle, values, love language.
Swipe & match
We surface the most compatible people first. A mutual like unlocks the conversation.
Meet in real life
Join or create local events to meet your matches in person. Coffee, hikes, dinners — you pick.
Dating that gets you off your couch
Forget endless texting. Flame Events let you meet your matches at coffee shops, hiking trails, dinners, and more — the natural, pressure-free way to connect.
- Join events hosted by others in your city
- Create your own event and invite matches
- Review attendees after the event
- Unlimited free events — no paywall
Coffee meetup
Gastown, Vancouver
Grouse hike
North Vancouver
Wine & chat
Yaletown
Pottery night
Mount Pleasant
Real stories, real connections
10,000+ success stories from people who found their match on Flame
"I met my boyfriend at a Flame hiking event. We'd been matched for a week but the event finally got us to meet in person. It changed everything."
Sofia M.
28 years old
"The compatibility scoring is real — I matched with fewer people but every conversation felt natural. Quality over quantity, finally."
James K.
31 years old
"Verified profiles make Flame feel so much safer than other apps. I can actually relax and enjoy talking to people."
Priya R.
26 years old
"After years on other apps, Flame's personality matching actually worked. We discovered we have the same love language — it felt meaningful from day one."
Marcus T.
34 years old
"The events feature saved my love life. I'm an introvert and swiping was exhausting. Meeting someone at a coffee event felt natural."
Elena V.
29 years old
"Three months in and I deactivated all my other dating apps. Flame is the only one I needed. The quality of matches is incomparable."
David L.
33 years old
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Everything to get started.
- Daily swipe limit
- Attend events
- Nearby map access
- AI icebreakers
- Streak rewards
Premium
The full experience.
- Everything in Free
- Unlimited likes
- See who liked you
- Rewind last swipe
- Profile boost
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